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Laing argues that the close link existing among family members places them in a vulnerable situation. He uses “family nexus” term to describe the common view and the set of values and beliefs that are held by the majority of the family. All members of the family are expected to adhere this nexus. The nexus exists to help to maintain the family identity. However, according to Laing, this maintenance often occurs at the expense of individual members of the family. Each member of the family concerns about the other’s opinions, feelings and thoughts and is deeply affected by the other’s attitude toward him/herself. In this vulnerable situation, members can easily be hurt. Thus, Laing argues that nexus can result in conflict and exploitation, and some family members may take advantage of the others. In family, in terms of the nexus, there is a constant demand for mutual concern and attention.